Find Love Online: Online dating profile consultant

Find Love Online: Online dating profile consultant
Find Love Online: Dating Coach

Friday, May 24, 2019

3 Online Dating Sites Success Tips for Christians

As a long recognized Internet Dating Expert one of the niche categories to discuss for the internet dating sites is Christian Online Dating Sites.  There are quite a number of them.  Today I will address the broader approach Christian Internet Dating Sites.  And then I will tackle how to succeed with some of the more exclusive denominations.



The Christian Dating sites are varied. Once you select the site you want to join...



1. Christian Dating Expert Tip:  Do Cite Your Christian Denomination
You do want to cite your denomination.  Some of the sites, you can be very precise with their denomination field click box.  This really can be helpful when other singles are searching and want to know who the other Baptists or Catholics there are at that site.  Additionally, this is part of following my "Be Truthful" philosophy in your dating profile.  If you are Catholic and someone else is LDS, the other single may really not want to date you.  For some Christians, this can be very important. It really is a matter of personal doctrine and choice.



2. Christian Dating Expert Tip:  Do Be Careful How You Phrase Your Church Involvement
You might think you are not that involved in your church....  However if you find yourself serving on the Vestry within 2 years of your membership at every Episcopal Church you joined then you are definitely in a leadership role even it is not yet today.  Interestingly enough this is often where Christian singles who are single-never married have some difficulty.  Invariably because balancing temperaments attract and suit each other well for a marriage relationship, the church member who quietly attends the services but keeps their involvement to a minimum, having more of a personal devotional life (think an introvert) is attracted to and does well with the more involved Bible Study leader or Men's or Women's Ministry leader (think extrovert).  And if you express either one of those approaches candidly yet poorly in your online dating profile, you may turn off the very partner who would balance you well and where you both would be very attracted to each other.



3. Christian Dating Expert Tip:  Do Avoid Pejorative Statements About Other Denominations
There are running jokes about the Baptists, that whenever there is an argument, another strain of Baptists starts.  There are the Independent Fundamentalist Baptists.  The Conservative Baptists.  The Southern Baptists (which is a denomination and is not about the location).  OK, enough, you get the idea.  And the Episcopalians are Anglicans, The Synod, and The Episcopal Church.  Whether you prefer classic music Hymns or your are Pro-Christian Rock and Praise loving and have a Seeker-Friendly philosophy, soft-peddle those things in your profile.  In your profile, it is best to positively state your denomination and to utter a few phrases about your personal practice - "Reads The Bible on average 5 days a week and prays daily, attends services monthly." 



However, please refrain from making smack-down doctrinal stances in your profile.  That is better done once you two have met and investigate whether you have in-person chemistry.  To do so before then would be premature and is poor social behavior.  And remember to keep a little bit of an open mind. You might be pleasantly surprised by who God has intended and prepared for you to marry.



Happy Dating and Relationships,
April Braswell
Orange County Christian Dating Expert, Author, and Conference and Event Speaker
Best Dating Coach and Online Matchmaker Orange County California Newport Beach, Costa Mesa, Irvine

April Braswell is an expert columnist at DatingAdvice.com and speaks to singles in Singles Groups and Divorce Support Groups as well as at Singles Dating Workshops and Singles Conferences in Orange County CA Life Coach April Braswell, LA and San Francisco.

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Orange County CA Life Coach April Braswell. Life and Business Coaching in Newport Beach right by the juncture of Costa Mesa, and Irvine.

Orange County CA Life Coach April Braswell. Life and Business Coaching in Newport Beach right by the juncture of Costa Mesa, and Irvine.

Orange County CA Life Coach April Braswell. Life and Business Coaching in Newport Beach right by the juncture of Costa Mesa, and Irvine.





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Saturday, October 24, 2009

Dating for Boomers – Online Dating Success Tips for Singles over 50 years old

As promised in yesterday’s blog post, where I recommended you pick up a copy of Moving On: Dump Your Relationship Baggage and Make Room for the Love of Your Life and do the simple Grief Recovery Process actions steps before you seriously relaunch yourself into dating. For Single boomers over the age of 45 years old and over 50 years old, invariably, there have been a series of romantic relationships which need to be completed EMOTIONALLY (not just the intellectual evaluation of them) before you are empowered to move on emotionally to attract the new love of your life.

That said, now that you have DONE that, NOW WHAT?

I’m going to GIVE AWAY for FREE a lot of what I give to clients to help you out here. I can’t possibly work with everyone who needs it. So, I have to give this away a lot to help you. Because my goal is for you to experience a wonderfully fulfilling intimate romantic relationship. If you qualify with your commitment level and complete my application process, I may accept you as a client. But again, I can’t work with everyone who asks. There’s just not enough time in the day. So I’m giving a LOT of it away for your to work yourself.

OK:

Soooooo, to leverage my Sales and Marketing background, specifically my Product Marketing background from a billion dollar Fortune 500 company.

YOU are your product. Brand yourself.

Before you stick your tongue out at me and hate me and start spouting epitaphs. Work with me people. The point of this is not that you are not a fully developed richly nuanced human being. The point is that there are attributes about yourself that you use all the time to convey yourself in short hand. USE THOSE for your dating life as well.

There are characteristics that you ARE.

And there are characteristics that you are SO NOT.

Myself? I AM Caucasian. (seriously pale face) It would be laughably untrue to convey myself as being African-American. I just often date African-American men (notice I just revealed two things there.)

I am 7 Sisters Educated (Smith College, top ten Liberal Arts college when I went, National Merit Letter of Commendation, Grew up in Princeton, NJ. Thank you very much) I am NOT a Hooser basketball fan, nor am I a Canadian who loves the national sport of Lacrosse. (Can you BELIEVE the national sport is NOT hockey? I was bereft when I learned that recently. )

See what I am demonstrating? None of what I am or am not matters in terms of values or being better or less than. Just. They are characteristics.

You want to make a 3 column worksheet. OK, so I worked in Accounting and Finance and my LOVE of Excel spreadsheets is showing.

Column 1: Physical Attributes to describe yourself, both good and bad. This is about being real.

Column 2: Personality Attributes to describe yourself. Yup, again, both good and bad. We want to BE TRUTHFUL. This will not be about being overly honest to the point of, sigh, excessive self-disclosure. Just about… be truthful. Think the concept, “Every man must make an accounting.” Be honest here. Be truthful.

Me? Tend towards clutter. I’m more emotional than a thinker. I struggle with my weight. Do I ALSO look, yes, thank you, beautiful, sexy and gorgeous? yes.

See what I mean? The sweet with the sour.

Last column

Column 3: MISC STUFF

What are some innnnnnnteresting things about you. Please hear the voice of Bugs Bunny talking to The Monster while filing his nails, “soooooo, tell me MORE about yourself.”

I’m a Fundamentalist Baptist. I’m conservative, Republican with some Libertarian leanings. I met John B. Anderson and Luciano Pavarotti as a teenager. I love Puccini AND Hockey. I’m a city slicker who loves to hike.

And YOU?

Fill in your columns and give me just few examples each.

This is a serious offer. The Singles who follow my blog, if you answer with a few examples in the comments section, I will give you some Online Dating Profile writing *FR*E *E help. If you write in the comments, I’ll help you, at least over the next few days. If you respond to this post like 6 months from now, the offer will be CLOSED by then.

In the mean time, be sure to prepare yourself with the Grief Recovery work. Seriously folks….

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

Dating and Relationship Expert, Online Dating Coach

Saturday, November 8, 2008

new online resources

One of the new online resources my buddy Tim Birch recommended to me was:

www.mynotetakingnerd.wordpress.com

the daily newsletter has lots of good materials in it, so I definitely recommend you take a look and sign up.

enjoy!

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Internet Dating Sites Guide and Review

With my work as a Dating and Relationship Coach where many of my romance coach clients are on the mature side often looking for an adult encounter and a mature casual experience, at least for now, relationship later. When they are looking for an adult encounter or a mature love, I wanted to be sure to provide them with a list of resources, which I have recently added to my website and now make available for all of you. Enjoy!

Internet Dating Sites Guide, Online Dating Sites Review

Saturday, May 31, 2008

Dating Tips and Advice

Are you looking for Dating Tips and Advice?

As a Romance Coach and Online Dating Coach, I will regularly add Dating Tips and Advice here for you.




Enjoy!

April Braswell
Romance Coach, Online Dating Coach